Following this short video of 10 seconds, apparently insignificant but with a lot of meaning, I conducted a small survey to see if there was any progress made in the perception of people as to their understanding of the relationships existing between spouses . Given the comments that arose from this , in which I found that the same old clichés of blind prejudices remain. I thought I had give it a try as to throw some light, hoping to remove a veil of bias that tends to settle down and thus, produce a false knowledge , if due attention is not given to the subject.
The question asked was: A. you can spend the rest of your life with your wife or B… He did not wait for the question, which implies that whatever comes next would be better than staying with his wife.
Where’s the problem?
Because we do not know how to live with others harmoniously.
To get along more harmoniously in a business or social way with your associates, you will find a little knowledge of the basic characteristics of those born under each of the twelve zodiac signs will be very helpful.
Here is a brief outline for each sign.
ARIES: In dealing with people born between these dates you should be firm but courteous, not mince your words nor be effeminate. These folks are aggressive and hate to stall or delay, but you must use persuasion and not force if you would achieve better success with them. They are trustworthy and slightly susceptible to flattery, especially those having birthdays during the April part of this sign.
TAURUS: In dealing with people born between these dates you should not appear over-anxious to convince them of your friendship or of the merit of any proposition you are offering. Taurus natives will see your point long before you’ve fully explained or reached it. When contacting them in person, be sure your clothes are neat and conservative and let them talk all they wish. They are very susceptible to flattery.
GEMINI: In dealing with people born between these dates you should be cheerful and open your conversation as early as possible with some reference to a current news item event of mutual interest.
Be sure you are quite thoroughly familiar with the subject on which you desire to converse because Gemini folks have a very keen intellect and are profound readers. They are extremely sensitive, so be on your guard not to offend them either by word or act. A little praise works well, but don’t carry it to extremes.
CANCER : In dealing with people born between these dates you should quickly touch upon any domestic subject, and if you know of some family or business accomplishment of theirs don’t delay mentioning it- make it a point to do so early in the conversation. They are very changeable folks, easily offended and any business deals should be closed “on the spot” as tomorrow would likely bring a change in their decision.
Let them think, however, that they alone are making the decision. That will help.
LEO: In dealing with people born between these dates you must praise their good work, good cooking, or fine judgment or even their personal appearance (if you are sufficiently acquainted with them to permit this). Be “straight from the shoulder” in what you wish to say to them and don’t be surprised if they are a little stern or “hard.” These folks are great pioneers, know what hardships are, and it is, therefore, essential that you be concrete and businesslike in the presentation of your proposition, even in a conversation not ‘ on a business basis. They are extremely quick thinkers.
VIRGO: In dealing with people born between these dates you must be jovial, carefree, and happy. These folks are very generous, will buy most anything and will help nearly everyone as long as they are not offended. Once you offend them by word or deed, you are done. There will never be a reconciliation. Women born under this sign are excellent cooks and dieticians and like to have their work praised, which ch provides a suitable ground for the opening conversation.
LIBRA: In dealing with people born between these dates you must be very refined and gentle. Talk in a calm, dignified, low voice, and the more beautiful language you use in expressing yourself, so much more impressed will any native of this sign be. These folks are usually very grateful kindness shown them and seldom forget a “good turn” They are not as a rule, susceptible to flattery, so you must depend logic and diplomacy. They possess a keen sense of justice which should be “played up” in your conversation.
SCORPIO: In dealing with folks born between these dates you would do well to respect their blunt, aggressive manner, but not be too timid in approaching them and never attempt to tell them about anything of which they seem to be thoroughly familiar. They’ll monopolize the conversation, and you’ll do well to be a good listener and coacher. Just ask them a question or two at infrequent intervals, and they will carry on and enjoy it. They possess great courage and may talk of events that bear out some deeds of heroism, and this often provides a good “opener” in any conversation. Possessed of an extremely bitter and sharp temper, they should not be antagonized in any way, so be sure not to arise their ire, but maintain your poise and self-control at all costs. They are very good buyers of merchandise, but drive a hard bargain.
SAGITTARIUS: In dealing with folks born between these dates you should never attempt to hide the truth from them; if you do and they find it out, as they most certainly will, you are finished, completely and thoroughly. Relate some incident in your own life that was extremely embarrassing to you and don’t minimize the particular situation that was the most ludicrous or serious. If it involves a gross blunder on your part – so much the better. They are great admirers of loyalty and sincerity at all costs. Animal life and nature appeals to them strongly and provide a suitable “break-in” for any conversation. They are very thrifty folk, hard to sell to but a bargain appeals to them. They are often quite extensively interested in the Occult or mystical.
CAPRICORN: In dealing with folks born between these dates you must proceed slowly and methodically; should be cheerful and buoyant and conservative in your views and expressions, especially if you’re in quest of business. Crack a “pun” occasionally, as they’ll enjoy it and the impression will be good. These folks are inclined to be quite melancholy or moody so try to pull them out of this rut. Once you are in their good graces, the ties of friendship will be very strong and hard to break, and well worth any effort you’ve made to create the good feeling. Show them how to make their lives a little more bearable and happier. They are inclined to be miserly and more apt to “open up” on a big proposition than a small one if such an opportunity is a worthy one and will stand the acid test which they often apply to any business venture.
AQUARIUS: In dealing with folks born between these dates there seems to be no “set rule” to follow.
They may appear to agree with you at the moment, but in the end take an entirely different course or view. They act a great deal on impulse, so when talking business, you should “close” them as soon as possible the “next day” likely will be too late. A stall means the door will be closed to further overtures. they are pioneers in thought and deed, so give them something new and different if you’d win.
Realize, when talking to them, that more notables are in the Hall of Fame that were born under this sign than any other in the zodiac. You must be honest and aboveboard in your dealings with them, even to the smallest detail. Live up to your promises how minor or insignificant they may seem and you should obtain good results.
PISCES: In dealing with folks born between these dates you should agree with them in most anything they say, even if you must sacrifice a little of your own individuality. Never be harsh or endeavor to “drive” them as this would immediately put cold water in your association. Be kind, and above all, sympathetic over their troubles, as these folks often believe they have more physical and economic vicissitudes than others. They are deeply impressed by speech or writing that is inspirational in nature or well done in some particular, and they possess some mighty original ideas of their own which you would do well to respect – even coach them on. If you can get them to talk on a subject of their hobby or “sideline,” you’ll soon find yourself in the “inner sanctum “
BE NOT THE FIRST TO QUARREL, NOR THE
LAST TO MAKE UP'”
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The true love.
Love is perhaps the most discussed subject in the world. If we attend a religious or spiritual gathering in the world, we will find people who talk about love – we should love one another, we must love the Lord. Yet what we see around us most often reflects intolerance, anger and sometimes hatred. We seek the love of those around us and we are continually disappointed. Why? Maybe what we call love is not true love.
Maharaj Sharan Singh Ji gave us a kind of definition of true love. He said, “True love, once it comes, it stays, if it goes, it’s not true love.” He has already been asked about surrender.
And he said, “What are you going to give yourself, what should you give?” Our body does not belong to us. Our mind is not under our control. First, we must have something before we can hand it to Master. The same goes for true love. We must first realize it in ourselves. We therefore ask ourselves the following question: how can I develop and realize this true love which, once come, never disappears? Guru Nanak says: “Without Nam, there is no true love, there is no true devotion, just as we need a teacher to learn any skill, to learn to develop love. True, we must go to the lovers of the Lord, who loved the Lord, reached the realization and the supreme union with him.Guru Ramdas said: “Learn the art of the devotion of a true devotee, true lover, then practice it every day “And as we practice, the realization begins, we, that true love is nowhere else, it is at the heart of our being, it is our true identity, it is our identity only, this awareness automatically helps us detach ourselves from the tragedy of this transient world.Renewing our commitment to develop this love of advantage, what attitude should we adopt? “In Spiritual Perspectives, Volume II, Master Sharan Singh we advises:
You see, we should not do our meditation on a calculated basis, because we love so much to get a salary for everything we do.
Love never demands wages, love itself is an effect of the wages that the Lord has given you this love to love him. What other wages might be required of the Lord? Our duty is simply to cultivate this love through meditation. The Lord only looks at our efforts. His love and grace do not depend on our karmas, our relationships, our goods, our mistakes. The saints realize how weak we are and make mistakes every step of the way. That is why their whole mission is that of love, mercy and forgiveness.