Family.
What is it ? A group of people who have the same roots or something of that sort?
The family, what an aberration, what an aberration. Everyone is immersed in their own bubble without ever wanting to look at the others. Always too preoccupied with their own story, that’s it.
It’s jealousy of the details of education and behavior related to parents, but as adults, this should change, we thought ? No, it gets worse, because the fight is fierce to justify and do ridiculous things to convey messages that have nothing to do with reality. A show of force , a platform of destructive power.
It’s a shame that the good times can’t be relived together. Too much discord.
But, the moment one leaves, it is the catastrophe of hypocrisy and the height of sadness. What a beauty. Yes, we live and think we have time. Ah, time passes and will never come back. What a power, what a beauty.
It’s the only thing we can’t bicker about, It doesn’t belong to us, It passes and we watch ourselves aging individually, with our body, our mind, our selfishness, our pettiness, without ever going beyond.
It’s difficult to leave one’s comfort zone, not knowing it’s an ephemeral and suicidal comfort.
The family, what a marvel in its conception, what a disaster in its reality. The family is a stage for competition, for reference, for success at any cost. Show it ! Demonstrate it! But ultimately, we will all pass and gone without ever paying attention to the other, listening to them, understanding them. I would never dare to love him. It’s too strong. So, let’s go elsewhere to love, to be understood and to be listened to.
It is the pattern of living together that is important. The family is a given, others are sought to cohabit and live together, to be loved and keep the essentials of life: loving, understanding and appreciating others for who they are, without preconditions and without criteria. It’s going further to resolve a different or misunderstood problem.
It’s about loving yourself beyond everything, it’s about looking at yourself through your brother or sister it’s incorporating the other. That’s family.
July 1, 2024.
Jean Yves Hakim 🐛🦋
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